On decision fatigue:
“Good decision making is not a trait of the person, in the sense that it’s always there. It’s a state that fluctuates.” Roy Baumeister
One late Spring in the 90s, my cousin Trish and I had exams. We had plenty of time and a great space to study. Unfortunately, there was a pool table next door. It was a tightly contested competition between the two of us. We played so much pool that I tried hiding when Mum came home unexpectedly.
Come exam time, I pulled all-nighters to cram my seriously tired and stressed brain with last-minute information. Why did I do that to myself? Why did my short-term actions not advance me in the slightest toward my goal?
Introducing decision fatigue
Two books that rule
The Science Behind Our Choices
Mental muscle
Messing things up at work – a decision fatigue story
In our work practice, decision fatigue plays its way out in a way that can wreck what you’re doing and affect your business.
Does this scenario ring true for you? You start your day with a clear head, creating a creative solution to a reasonably knotty problem. By 3 p.m., after five back-to-back Teams meetings and so many SMS, Slack, and email messages that you’ve forgotten which channel you used to get any one piece of information, you’re faced with a hiring decision. Your System 2 is exhausted, and……. you find yourself making the easy choice rather than the right one.
Decision fatigue and associated phenomena affect everything we do. Late-afternoon contract discussions tend to favour the more prepared party. Budget allocations made after a day of meetings often default to last year’s numbers rather than reflecting current needs.
Knowing how it works is one thing. Mitigating it, thriving on that knowledge, that’s another.
3 simple to strategic ideas to counter decision fatigue
- Start with Simplification
- Time your decision-making
- I Will, I Won’t, I Want
1. Start with Simplification
“I’m trying to pare down decisions. I don’t want to make decisions about what I’m eating or wearing. Because I have too many other decisions to make.” Barack Obama
2. Time your decision-making
Learning from my pool table days (and years of being in or managing teams), I’ve discovered when decision-making is most effective for me. I schedule essential meetings and strategic work for the morning or after lunch. I’ve become almost fanatical about time blocking, using tools like Motion AI to protect these peak decision-making hours.
It means being intentional about scheduling different types of work and it could look like this:
- Morning: Strategic decisions, creative work or thinking
- Afternoon: Process-driven tasks and standard operations
That’s all well and good, you might say – but what about when things don’t go to plan? Kelly McGonigal talks about studies that evidence that taking a break of even fifteen minutes, especially in a green space, can revitalise you to do that deep work you must do on a Friday afternoon.
3. I will, I won’t, I want
In The Willpower Instinct, Kelly McGonigal introduces the concept of “I will, I won’t, I want” to help individuals harness their self-control more effectively.
This framework represents three aspects of willpower:
- “I will” power refers to the ability to take action towards positive habits or tasks we wish to develop
- “I won’t” power relates to the ability to resist temptations and avoid negative impulses;
- “I want” power involves keeping long-term goals in mind to stay motivated.
McGonigal’s framework works on the proviso that by strengthening these “mental muscles”, combined with techniques like “social contracts” (meeting someone at the gym so you commit to going) and structuring your day, you can excel at making better decisions regularly.
From Depletion to Direction
The path to better decision-making isn’t about having unlimited willpower—it’s about understanding and working with our natural limitations.
Work-life balance isn’t just a nice-to-have—it’s crucial to maintaining our decision-making capacity. Those 7 a.m. gym sessions and 6 p.m. family dinners don’t compete with our work; they support our ability to make better decisions when we’re there.
“The best decision makers are the ones who know when not to trust themselves.” Roy Baumeister
Bargaining between the present and future
Every decision we make is a trade-off between our present and future selves. The key is to make those trade-offs count. By simplifying our daily decisions like Obama, protecting our peak decision-making hours, and using knowledge and strategy by frameworks like McGonegal’s “I Will, I Won’t, and I Want”, we can make sure our decisions align with our objectives.
The next time you find yourself making a decision you might regret, whether it’s picking up the pool cue instead of the textbook, inhaling that packet of Bluebird Ready Salted chips (true story) instead of drinking water, or choosing the convenient option over the right one, you need to remember: your willpower isn’t infinite, but your capacity to manage it better is.